I had been a victim of these for YEARS. Dont do the mistakes I did. Dont fall into these traps.
Here are the 5 myths about overcoming stuttering. Knowing these will help you to avoid these mistakes that take YEARS for most people to realize. On the other hand, being aware of these myths will make everything easier, shorter and a lot more effective for you.
1- Overcoming Stuttering Is About "Fixing" It
A lot of marketing Ive seen in our community is based on this promise, so you need to be extra careful with this. Most organizations/individuals communicate the idea of "Come along and we teach you a stuttering technique which you can fix your stuttering with".
No, no, no. Never ever fall into this trap. Its the worst mindset you can have if you want to overcome stuttering.
Overcoming stuttering is NOT about fixing it, it is about DISSOLVING it.
2- Learning Some Physical Stuttering Techniques Is Enough To Overcome Stuttering
This may be true in some very rare cases, but in general any PWS(person who stutters) need a holistic, multi-approach strategy to deal with and overcome stuttering.
You should never underestimate the importance of the mental side of the equation. Your mindset is so CRITICAL when it comes to overcoming your stuttering challenge. Your thoughts, your emotions, your perceptions, your beliefs and the way you approach the problem is very critical and need to be addressed correctly.
3- There Is Nothing That Can Be Done For Stuttering
Have you ever been on internet forums, discussion groups or even support groups where people constantly spread their negative energy and claim that there is nothing that can be done for stuttering?
They defend this "beyond genius" idea with some "scientific studies". They dont know how to defend it but all they say is "stuttering is a neurological flaw", "stuttering is genetic" and things along those lines to prove that there is nothing that can be done for stuttering and nobody should waste time trying to improve their speech.
I call these people "born failures who suck motivation from possible winners".
No matter what the core reason of stuttering is, there is a solution to it. It is definitely possible to IMPROVE your speech to a great level and eventually overcome stuttering.
If the hypothesis "there is nothing that can be done for stuttering" is true, then could anyone please explain me how on earth there are hundreds of stutterers who successfully overcame stuttering?
Yes, curing stuttering is not possible yet, but you can learn to improve your speech to a great level where stuttering would not be an issue in your life anymore, it would not be an obstacle on your way to live the life you desire.
4- Some People Can Overcome Stuttering Because They Are "Special"
No, nobody is special. I personally met hundreds of those people and no one was different than any PWS. They did not have anything "special" that you dont have.
All they had and did different was; they learned WHAT to do and HOW to do it... and most important of all, they didnt let that knowledge sit on their bookshelf or on their computers hard drive and they TOOK ACTION.
Nobody is more special than you are. Nobody was better than you are or less severe or more smart or anything like that... they just FOLLOWED WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE!
5- If You Want, Try And Work Enough On It, You Should Be Able To Overcome Stuttering
No, no matter how much you want or how hard you try, you cannot succeed in overcoming stuttering UNLESS you know what to do, how to do and when to do it.
Wanting, trying and working hard is not enough to overcome stuttering. If you dont learn the RIGHT KNOWLEDGE and APPLY it the RIGHT WAY, I am afraid nothing would get you your desired outcome. You want results, therefore you need to learn from people who already got those results.
The best way to achieve a goal is to analyze people who ALREADY ACHIEVED that goal and follow what they did.
Would you like to learn HOW they did it?
Watch this 5-part FREE Video eCourse which Ill be sharing with you everything you need to know about overcoming stuttering the right way. Making those mistakes and falling into those traps cost me YEARS, so save 2 minutes of your time and go watch your FREE Video eCourse. Its totally FREE so there is nothing to think about...
In addition to that, feel free to check out my blog Stuttering Dissolution Blog... helping you to achieve your speaking goals, become an effective communicator and live a fulfilled life.
Take care and Ill see you there.
All the best,
Chazzler DiCyprian
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